I know I must not belittle their mother in front of the kids. Is it wrong to ask them how they feel about things? Recently our 9 year old daughter told me a class-mate that lives in our old neighborhood saw her mommy kissing her recent boy friend. She told her about it. also explained that she hardly ever see her mommies car at the house. My daughter is very smart and knew mommy was lying about just having a male friend and not a boyfriend.She figured out when at mommies other friends house and saw this so called male friend answer her mommies cell phone something more then friendship was going on. Even though we aren’t divorced yet and only living apart I know somewhere this hurting the kids. She bought the kids a prepaid cell phone so they could call her but she maybe calls them once a week.I as the adult know all to well what type of a person their mommy is.It’s so hard to bite my tongue and not go off in front of the kids about their mother exploits. Do I sit back let their mom lie to them without saying anything at all? I remember 3 years ago (after she said she never cheat again) finding out she was giving out our home phone No. in adult chat rooms. That was frightening to me. The affair That sent me leaving along with the kids.She would take our 3 girls not our son to meet her then lover. Introduce him as her boss, a friend as John Smith. She even helped support that guy with money. Told the girls not to tell me about their meetings ’cause then we would not be able take family vacations.I have hurt issues. I know but how not to let them to be hurt by their mommies behavior and lies Please help

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