what are parents views on having a cellphone for their kids?

armywife asked:

What ages do you believe are complelty inappropriate for kids to have their own cellphones? My neice, who is 8 years old, was approached by a girl in school who asked to have her “cell phone” number. My sister was astonished. Then the girls mother actually asked my sister if (my neice) had a cell phone. And explained that her 8 year old daughter has one for emergancies….and joked that she had already had it taken away for “texting” too much! HELLO! Does anyone else think that this is ABSURD? I am all for using technology to keep our young ones safe. I, myself will allow my children to have cellphones on their person when they are old enough to keep communication readily available. I think in todays world we need that safety. They have programs for kids such as emergancy # installed, prepaid phones, blocked numbers aside from emergancy contacts and maybe one or 2 other personal #. But I think this should begin once the child enters High school (possible junior high).
If you believe it is acceptable…what reasons can you give? Because in my eyes, there should be NO 8 year old un accompainied by an adult. An 8 year old has no business being without supervision long enough to need a cell phone for emergancies. They are either i school (where there is access to land line phones) at home (again landlines) or at a friends house (land lines)…I’ll give the bennefit of the doubt and say that the child i possibly walking home from school and in order to ensure safety the parents give her a cell phone to walk to and form school. but it should end there. Block all outgoing and incoming calls except that of emergancy contacts. ANd what 8 year old has such anetwork of friends that a cell phone is needed for personal enjoyment? Its crazy!

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HELP with handling break up for the kids?

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I know I must not belittle their mother in front of the kids. Is it wrong to ask them how they feel about things? Recently our 9 year old daughter told me a class-mate that lives in our old neighborhood saw her mommy kissing her recent boy friend. She told her about it. also explained that she hardly ever see her mommies car at the house. My daughter is very smart and knew mommy was lying about just having a male friend and not a boyfriend.She figured out when at mommies other friends house and saw this so called male friend answer her mommies cell phone something more then friendship was going on. Even though we aren’t divorced yet and only living apart I know somewhere this hurting the kids. She bought the kids a prepaid cell phone so they could call her but she maybe calls them once a week.I as the adult know all to well what type of a person their mommy is.It’s so hard to bite my tongue and not go off in front of the kids about their mother exploits. Do I sit back let their mom lie to them without saying anything at all? I remember 3 years ago (after she said she never cheat again) finding out she was giving out our home phone No. in adult chat rooms. That was frightening to me. The affair That sent me leaving along with the kids.She would take our 3 girls not our son to meet her then lover. Introduce him as her boss, a friend as John Smith. She even helped support that guy with money. Told the girls not to tell me about their meetings ’cause then we would not be able take family vacations.I have hurt issues. I know but how not to let them to be hurt by their mommies behavior and lies Please help

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